Dating a know it all
If you are impatient in your efforts, you might end up with a guy who just isn’t ready to be in a relationship and the experience will be disappointing at best.
There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.
Unfortunately, most relationships don’t progress this way.
I know it’s exciting to like someone but you have to be patient in the process, and don’t feel like you have to make it happen. Don’t be so quick to assume that if this guy really liked you he would lock it down.
You’re also telling him that you don’t trust that he can, pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way he feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.
Putting trust into the guy that you want to be exclusive with shouldn’t sound like a crazy concept.
If you’re ready for a committed relationship, and the work that lasting love entails, then post is for you.
Or even worse, settle for treatment that is less than what you deserve.Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?Chill with the idea that dating is so complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reins from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you. If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re worth committing to.